An open letter to Emily of http://momminitup.com/ .
Oddly enough, I have no pictures to go with this post!
Gilda was our first. We got her six months after we were married, the day before we moved 400 miles away to Tennessee . She rode in the car with me all the way, spent most of the time whining her box and some between my neck and the car seat head-rest. She was a cutie. Eleven ounces and six weeks old when we got her, she actually fit in the inside coat pocket of my old Navy Pea Coat.
We took her everywhere.
She chewed up everything, would not sleep in her bed, wound up in ours, and woke me up everyday like clock work once she was house broken.
But we loved her.
Eight years later, when our daughter was born, Gilda had to go. She was jealous, snippy, and snappy. I really didn’t want to A. permanently scar my child’s face; and B. Explain all that to the Department of Children’s Services. I hear they can be picky.
After child number 2 came along, grew to walking stage, wiping his own butt stage (hallelujah, one of the greatest days of all time and a whole ‘nother blog), we all felt the ‘call of dog’. Many feel the call of God, but alas, we felt the call of dog.
Then came Lacy. A blonde Cocker Spaniel that was obviously more inbred than I, had the IQ of a lawn chair, and came with her own IEP.
She would dig one hole under the fence to get out and another one to get back in. After a while it looked like it was warped, and the neighbors would point and shake their heads as they walked by.
One day she disappeared. Really, just gone. I had nothing to do with it, though I was accused, glared at and repeatedly questioned. The lie detector test was “inconclusive”. But alas, another one gone. (Remarkably, my Sister-in-law’s dog, who was Lacy’s litter mate vanished the same week. My brother-in-law survived the questioning much better than I.) We never found either of them. I was not sad.
Again, the dog conversation started. I hedged, said no, fought, and as all of us do, gave in…just as you will Emily.
That was Dagy, or Dagmar. Pure bred, black as coal, sweet as sugar and the most wonderful companion ever. She met me at the door every night. When every one else was mad, she loved me, when every one else was out, she was at the door.
Then her back went out. $600.00 and several days at the vet’s later, we had to let her go. On my 50th birthday. Yeah, happy freakin’ birthday.
I swore off dogs, again.
But, again, I heard the call of dog. So I bought two at the same time. Don’t ever do this. They won’t learn their own names, they will both come when you call one, they will not train, they will not stop chewing, and they encourage each other to mischief.
After I cam home from my quadruple bypass surgery (I promise to talk about that at length some day), I was actually afraid they would jump up on me and open up every slice and dice the doctors had done. Thank goodness for rescue sites. They were both gone in 2 days.
Then one day, Mugly (short for my ugly dog, ‘cause she was clock stopping hideous – I mean, seriously, “cover your watch!”) showed up. Really, she just arrived in the yard, decided she liked the place and stayed…for exactly a year. Then she moved on.
Oh, I looked for her. I put UP post-it notes advertising “lost dog” on telephone poles, canvassed the neighborhood…all ten houses…but alas, we never found her. Until I went walking a week later and there she was, dead on the side of the road. She wasn’t hit; she just went off to die. I was sad, and swore off dogs, once again.
Then there was Lola. Lola was my son’s dog. She had feet the size of hams when she was born. Now, the biggest dog I had weighed in at about 18 pounds. This one was 40 at six months.
She was part yellow lab and part idiot. She was a chewer, a whiner, a barker, a digger, just like all the others.
She had to go.
I bided my time.
Well, the boy decides to go to college. (I’m happy about that.) He left his dog at home.
Duh! Working two jobs and napping got in the way of play time with Lola, so she had to go.
Napping is important.
It just wasn’t fair to her.
One add on kijiji.com and 8 hours later. I was runnin’ through the house singing “Dog Free” and praising Jesus.
This dog, the last dog, didn’t die. She went to a nice family with four kids and big fenced yard. She could have been a science project at UGA and I’d have lost no sleep!
She was the last dog…well, for now.
Seriously, Em, get that bunch under control! Heed not the Call of Dog!