Can we talk about the “double standard”?
I know, you’re saying, “Which double standard?”
I agree, there are far too many.
There really are far too many, and I could address several…
…but for now, try this one…
Ever hear a woman say, “Isn’t that just like a man?”?
I’m sure you have…I’m sure you may have said it.
And I’ll admit, stereotypes are there because they’re there.
At a business meeting back in the day when I had a “real” job, one of the big boys was working the remote for the presesntation when a female corporate Vice President said,
“Isn’t that just like a man, they always have to have the remote.”.
Now, I personally believe that it is written somewhere in the Bible that the man should have the remote. And frankly, women do not know how to work them. I’m sure it’s because we’ve controlled them for so long that the evolutionary process has deleted that from the very DNA of the female. So, guys, I’m sure it’s our fault. Why not, everything else is.
It got me to thinking, and this is dangerous ground. But if a MALE corporate Vice President had said, “Isn’t that just like a woman?” , there would have been attorneys, court dates, settlements, early retirements, and general mayhem.
I bring this UP, simply because after nearly 40 years of “sensitivity” training, diversity training, treating others with respect seminars, co-worker team building sessions, and media attention…it is still going on.
Are major corporations wasting their money on all this?
People are people, people are going to say insensitive and ignorant things. Maybe we need to just take it for what it’s worth and learn something about the person who’s saying it.
Maybe it’s just our plain old human selfishness to think we know better than someone else, aren’t like the typical woman/man, which ever the case may be. Or maybe it’s really the way it is, and we just need to get over it.
Am I advocating saying what’s on your mind?
That way we’ll know instantly how you really feel.
And we know what you really believe, and know just how far we should stay away from you!
So, speak your mind!