I love the Fall.
Football and homecoming just make it better.
It’s homecoming time!
Germantown and Valley View Homecomings were special, and Homecoming was simpler then. There was a Queen, a King, and a sock-hop.
Now, homecoming, at least in Georgia, is a mini-prom. Parents spend nearly a thousand bucks to get their daughters ready. Limos, nails, dresses, hair, flowers, dinner, and the the ‘dance’ at the school. It’s crazy.
The first recorded homecoming was in 1909 at Baylor University. Now, I’m sure someone will come UP with one that is older, but this is all I could find!! So, work with me.
Missouri started its homecoming in 1911. Either way, the tradition is over 100 years old.
What I remember are pretty girls, convertibles, mums, and anxious moms hoping their daughter would be crowned Queen.
Of course, there were always two moms who went away empty handed, sure that their daughter had been robbed.
Germantown’s Connie Diver was homecoming in the Fall of 1967.

Connie can not only fit into the earring she wore in high school, she can probably fit into that suit as well. Really, it’s not fair that someone stay that pretty and that young for so long!
Of course there were Freshman, Sophomore, and Junior attendants as well.



Once we became Valley View, there were more pretty girls for the court. No matter which town the Queen was from, the vote was usually not close. One girl always stood out. Only one girl was the Queen.
There were traditions galore. There was a parade through town, and the King and Queen always lead the first dance at the sock hop in the gym. The previous queen came and crowned the new queen too, well, assuming she wasn’t pregnant, in jail, or otherwise unavailable!
In the Fall of 1976, my sister-in-law, Rhonda was Queen.

One year later, my other sister-in-law Mindy, was the Queen.

And of course, you can imagine their Mother’s pride when Rhonda crowned Mindy.

Of course, their Dad was none to happy about buying two new outfits! Rhonda and Mindy are the only sisters who were back to back homecoming queens! Sure, there are mom and daughter queens, which is pretty cool, but sisters, now, that’ s a winning streak!
Oddly enough, homecoming is really supposed to be a time that welcomes back alumni, and there are plenty of them at the game each year, but homecoming today is all about the court and all about the game.
One of the traditions that has changed over the years is the mum. I can’t find out why Chrysanthemums became the homecoming flower, I can only assume that since they are a Fall flower, they were plentiful. But, nonetheless, mums were the flower of choice. Of course, even that has changed. Now the queen gets roses, the corsages are all different flowers, and mums have fallen by the wayside.
Except in Texas, where like everything else, they are bigger and gaudier than ever. And they are fake!
Texas homecoming mums are nearly a foot across, covered with pictures and pins, and bedecked with ribbons.

Honestly, with something like this, a guy can’t even get the second base! And that’s a homecoming tradition that will never go away.
So, with the crisp Fall air on its way, football on every field, and homecoming around the corner, check out what your school is doing to welcome you back. Call a few friends, go home, buy a mum and cheer your team on to victory.
You can go home again!


9 comments
Comment by Emily on September 19, 2012 at 10:29 am
I’m totally playing in the alumni band this year. I can hardly wait!
Comment by Linda Nunery Kidwell on September 19, 2012 at 10:31 am
Great memories. Can’t remember Homecoming around here without thinking of Hazel Baker. She was always in the middle of homecoming events. Several years Hazel asked me to help her judge the homecoming floats. We had a great time! Miss her.
Comment by Lynn Woodard on September 19, 2012 at 10:32 am
In 1967 I got to drive the seniors on a shiny RED Cadillac Eldorado in that homecoming parade. What a view!!!!
Comment by Melody Gardner Herbst on September 19, 2012 at 10:33 am
Great story Paul, thanks for the memories!
Comment by Charlie on September 19, 2012 at 10:54 am
My favorite time of the year especially now that I am retired!
Comment by Vicky Ferier on September 19, 2012 at 3:02 pm
Well I am in Texas and let me tell you not only does the girl still get the mum but the boy gets one on an arm garter. Some parents make them snd some buy them but the girls hang them on there wall for years to come. We bought our daughters first one for kindergarden. She loved it and it looked so cute on her outfit. As she got older her boyfriends or just boys who were friends got them for her. One must have cost a hundred dollars. Then I found out he had his mom make it for her. She never made anyone elses just our daughters. I was gorgeous and is still in a box of her things we hold onto for her. My son loved the garter as it made him special for the day as well. The girl usually gives it to him and trys to make it match his if she can. Homecoming is a fun and exciting time here even if you are not in the court. Go Whitney Wildcats. But most of all Go Valley View Spartans both schools are blue and white.
Comment by Tammie Eastridge on September 19, 2012 at 4:36 pm
I see the freshmen was a Hensley………..My grandmothers maiden name was Hensley and she married Russell Brads……..that is cool to see……..I guess that is how we connected on FB………….pretty cool!!!
Comment by Karen Patterson on September 25, 2012 at 3:40 pm
the home comings poster are too young for me , although I do remember them..thank you for bringing back those memories!
Comment by Eric Hacker on February 24, 2013 at 12:14 pm
Those are some great memories UP! Of course, I was in my freshman year at UC during that HC moment but I do remember Connie Diver, now Shaffer, very well. Later, I had the pleasure of working with Connie when she taught Art at Farmersville School while I was teaching 3rd grade.
If memory serves me, in my senior year, Jessica Steinmetz, Carol Helsinger and Amy Kuhn were the senior attendents with Jessica being named Queen and Mike O’Neal being named the King.
Sometimes it all seems like a life time ago but, when you bring it up, it still seems like yesterday. Simpler times, no doubt!